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Who is more CONFUSED?
Bunty feels:
A man is completely capable of thinking clearly. Clarity of thought is in fact one of the prominent features of a man while a woman is known to be mercurially fickle. Men trust their instincts even when there is literally no hope whatsoever, like Columbus and Vasco Da Gama did before their discoveries. Women on the other hand cannot trust their instinct to cross a street. And they snigger at men because they do not ask for directions or read a map. So much for a woman’s instinct.
The time men take to dress up, decide on what to wear or shop is ridiculously lesser than what women take. On an average a man has 2 colors on his mind when he is off to buy a shirt. God knows(?) how many colors a woman has in mind when they are off to buy something for themselves and if this fact is pointed out when they are in a shopping spree, they rebuke that men cant see as many colors as a women does or that we don’t have taste or ultimately that men are color blind. And for all the fuss, it finally comes back to the man to decide which one of the two or three or four colors would look nice on them.
Relationships are far more complicated. A woman is always at crossroads when it comes to deciding between the man she loves and her parents. Poor soul, she never makes up her mind in time and then blames fate. She could have chosen what would have kept her happy. But then, she is confused and can never make up her mind. And what more, she calls a man unemotional and selfish when he is ready to have her against his parents wishes. And finally a man learns a new philosophical order from a woman- knowing what you want and being ready for it at any cost is unemotional and selfish.
Women tend to think a great a deal about trivialities. Like buying a wedding gift months before the occasion. And if he is not able to comprehend what she means at these junctures of immensely needless thoughts, he is just plain disinterested about what she is going through and is inconsiderate of her feelings. Why would a woman not feel helpless against such men who hardly think? Loving is just not enough. One needs to analyze it to the extent of breaking up a relationship. And when men cant seem to know how there can be any issue at al, they are pronounced heartless.
Infact, a man faces confusion only after he loves a woman. Confusion is contagious .
Bubbly thinks:
Men and certainty are antonyms. They think they are the big picture people and do not quite get a hang of even a wee portion of it. How often do you see a woman crying hoarse that ‘Men, I do not get them!’ Reason being women are naturally understanding and adoptive, they prefer people as they are.
You never hear of husbands being ‘second fathers’ to their wives, whereas a wife is universally the second mother. Why? Girls can withstand the mood swings of men, ask the daughters, sisters and girlfriends for more details. At least we have the PMS as a reason!
Women are picky about their clothes and accessories, because the choices are multitudinous. Period. The good man-manager in her decides to be inclusive, and she asks the guy to pick from the final four. After all, it is you men who would go crazy looking at us draped in nice dresses, why complain, when we are considering you for a privilege?
Yes, women do take time deciding on their life partners and take forever to choose between her father and lover. A woman is biologically structured to be with one man, unlike a man, who loves being a Casanova anyway. And unlike you, we have always had the privilege of being cocooned by certainties, right from our birth till the day we are married, and then from then to death. Come on dudes, we are loved by all, unlike you poor souls. We are definitely not heartless enough to hurt one to make another happy. Essentially that is the reason why the world is largely straight, or else men have always had the option of falling for their fellow men.
Women are intricate with their thoughts and give great importance to nuances. Taking pains to zero in on the perfect gift is a personal choice. You love your gal, she adores you gifting, then you gift her back. No point in whining after the choice is set, again, very typical of men to regret in hindsight because they made the giant leap before looking.
As far as men’s emotional quotient is concerned, reread Bunty’s script, it is starkly evident. He is the cat on the wall. The way he has dissected the female clan shows he realizes her emotions, which means he is not un-emotional, but pretending to be one, even if it hurts the women around him.
Do not worry Bunty, pretense and uncertainty has never lasted forever, even in the case of men. Cheer up!
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